The letter I sent to the attorney handling the probate (which is in a different county btw) was submitted and the 'Administrator' said that it was 'made up'.
Because I'm not a complete idiot, despite what she may think, I'm obviously not going to write something that I know full well could be submitted in court and LIE about it. Hello, perjury isn't on my list of things to do...EVER. Nor would I 'steal' from my own child. This was actually said that the reason they didn't think my husband and I should have control over OUR son's money is that we would have access to it for ourselves! I. Don't. Think. So.
Know this: Actions have consequences. And by this person's choosing to not to the correct and proper thing, the consequences are this:
Do not speak to me, do not come near me, my husband, OR my child. Stay away from us. End of story.